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Gaelynn Beswick

I trained and worked as a Life Line Counsellor for a number of years gaining further Certification in Counselling in 1996. Following this I worked in a counselling centre and in private practice. Thirteen years ago I founded and continue to manage, Loving Tributes Pet Cremations where I support those who have lost a loved animal friend.

Each of our lives is a tapestry made up of many threads. Multi-coloured, they are the stories we weave and that weave us.

These are some of my threads. They answer the question people often ask me: “How did I come to have a pet cremation service?”

As a child I had numerous pets, including ailing and injured birds, hedgehogs and other wildlife that I endeavored to save. When my animals inevitably died, I’d bury them in my pet cemetery beneath the macrocarpa hedge at the back of the garden. Each pet had a little named cross and I’d decorate their “sacred place,” with coloured stones, shells and flowers. I was usually the only one at the ceremony – my younger sisters being reluctant mourners.

There would be tears and a wondering, “where are they now?’ The smell of macrocarpa still brings the rememberance of that grief.

Grief re-visited me as a young mother. At 22 my first child, Melissa, died at 4 months of age from congenital heart defects. It was an abyss that took a long time to climb out of. Writing was my solace –a way of purging the turmoil of feelings that I feared would send me to madness or suicide.
Though others grieved around me, mostly it wasn’t talked about, for those who loved me didn’t want to add to my pain. I had little understanding back then of emotions or an “inner life” and the silence and alonenesss I found myself in was at times unbearable.

The other significant threads in my tapestry are training then working as a counsellor, followed by the establishment and running of boarding kennels. Melissa’s life – and death is the thread that stands out the most brightly. It’s the blue of sorrow, yet intertwined are jewels of glistening yellow. This most precious thread reminds me that out of darkness comes light; out of pain comes joy and that death and sorrow can be the backdrop that shines the light on how to truly live. The breaking of our hearts can also be the opening.

Our animals are treasures. They grace out lives and families with their unconditional love, passion, forgiveness and humour. I often wonder how different we might be – life could be – if we lived their values.

Gaelynn Beswick

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